Mentally Abusive Relationship – Signs & Prevention
If you are in a relationship where you find yourself constantly doubting your judgment its time you realized that you are in a mentally abusive relationship. Abuse does
not need to show on your body as scars to be termed as abuse. It can very well be abuse of the sorts that leaves mental scars and nor physical ones. The thing about mentally abusive relationships is that your partner makes you so vulnerable and dependent on them that instead of standing up against their unrighteous behavior, you begin finding faults with yourself. So, even though you are right, your judgment is so inexplicably impaired in a mentally abusive relationship that you do not even realize that you are right.
One of the first signs of a mentally abusive relationship is that you find yourself at the receiving end of a fight. No matter who started the fight or whose fault it was, the ultimate blame is always on you. Remember, at the end of a fight, if you’re left scratching your head trying to figure out how you ended up getting the blame, you are in a mentally abusive relationship and to make matters worse, you’re not even aware that you are being abuse. You begin to feel that you are being controlled and intimidated by your abuser. You feel the need to get clearance or consent from your partner on every miniscule matter, be it shopping, catching a movie or even meeting a friend. You find your partner constantly twisting facts and having sudden fits of amnesia. The abuser may conveniently forget things to suit his argument. All these are signs of a mentally abusive relationship.


